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It hurts me a lot whenever I see a good relationship tearing apart, but then it comes into my mind that most people don’t know how to maintain a relationship. So I have to say this. 1- FOR GUYS. Guys if you love a girl and you’re sure you love her, there are things you have to do to prove it: Never push her to do the things, she doesn’t want to do. Always try to listen carefully to her, and understand her. Try to give her space to develop, herself as a person. Take very good care of her, in every possible way. 5.Try to call or text her, it goes a long way to remind her, that you are thinking about her. Try to help her in every way you can. Always worry about how she feels about things, worry about how she sees the world, try to get to know about her goals, and understand why she lives her life the way she does. Try to trust her, now I know this may be hard especially if you have trust issues, but if you love a girl you should be able to trust her. Try complimenting her, ...

Dating dos and don’ts to live by When you’re dating, you have to put yourself out there until you find Mr. Right. Sometimes it takes a while, but in the end it’s worth it. Here are the dating rules to live by, from a matchmaker, so that you don’t make the common dating mistakes. The dos (these are the things you should be doing) Ask away The best way to get to know a man is to ask him a ton of questions. Don’t make the date feel like an interview, but get to know him. Believe me, everyone loves to talk about themselves. Dress up Putting yourself together is important – all the time. I’m a huge fan of leggings and T-shirts. If you ever run into me during the day, I am likely to be in spandex and some kind of comfy top, but that’s not what I wear on dates. I save my comfy clothes for when I hang out with my girlfriends. You should too. When you’re going on a date, play dress-up with yourself. Wear clothes that make you feel like a million dollars. Be confident Confidence, conf...

You didn’t think you would ever find yourself in these shoes, but unfortunately, you have caught your partner cheating on you. Read this before you make your next move. Don’t Put The Decision To Leave Or Stay In Someone Else’s Hands Your mother says you should leave; your bestie says give him another chance. But it’s your choice whether the relationship is worth salvaging or not. People will always have their own opinions, but the final decision on how to proceed is yours. No one else can appreciate what is best for you, and what is going to work for you going forward. You’re the only person who can decide whether you want to continue being in the relationship or not. There is no shame in staying, and there is no shame in leaving. Don’t Ignore The Cause Of Cheating It may ease the pain to just ignore your partner’s infidelity. But doing so won’t address the underlying issues in your relationship. Trying to ignore the reason your partner cheated will only leave the relationship on ...

The food we eat can affect our sex drive in both a positive and negative way, so it’s important to choose wisely when it comes to getting some action. Our libidos are influenced by a number of factors, from stress, tiredness, shift work, financial worries or simply working long hours but the food we eat can affect our sex drive in both a positive and negative way. Whether you’re on a hot date or planning a cozy night in with your other half, you want to make sure your breath smells fresh. Pulse.com.gh brings you 5 foods you shouldn’t eat before having sex . 1. Cheese Dairy products are generally is a libido killer. For many dairy is congesting and mucus-producing, so not the ideal way to feel before sex. 2.Beans As much as beans is full of energy after a bean-filled meal, its sluggish nature makes one feel bloated and even an increase in flatulence. 3. Energy drinks These are often full of sugar and nasties such as artificial colours and flavours. They may give you an instant ...

Why it is important for women to allow nipple stimulation in their sex life Men are like babies and I really do not know of any man who does not like to enjoy the pleasure of his woman’s breasts. And by this, they assume all women like being touched in that region. Unfortunately, this is not correct. Some women do not encourage the act for many reasons ranging from their nature to men’s failure to do it right. While its important that men learn how to make breast and nipple stimulation pleasurable for their women, we also need to let women know the amazing benefits of surrendering their breasts to us. When you consider these four points, you will understand that it is worth giving your man a chance to master the game. 1. Detect abnormalities As loud as the campaign for early detection of breast cancer is, the truth is that many women still do not remember to do the breast examination; as easy as it is. But in his process of having fun, your husband can innocently help you to co...

men and women love to make love, but have you ever thought of positions women really enjoy or feel comfortable while reaching orgasm? There are many positions out there, only some of them give more pleasure to women. Women are always ready to accept and enjoy men’s favorite love positions but women seldom ask for their favourite position(s). The time has come for men to understand what women really want in bed. Remember, great love happens only when there is a smooth balance between pleasure and comfort. The Campus Times brings you five amazing positions you need to explore and that will make campus girls and women to always die for your love. Best styles or positions that women love most in bed Get dirty with doggy style: Women definitely enjoy doggy style. It is probably one of the best love positions, and also the most arousing position for men. Make sure to perform this style with intimacy and pleasure. The overused style, missionary position: No doubt, the man-on-woman posit...

A man can cheat on his woman and still love her but a woman cannot cheat on her man and still love him. I say this because while men do not have sex with emotions, women can’t have sex without attaching emotions to it. This is the reason men simply need a place to have sex while women need a reason to have sex. Most women who take their husbands to court for divorce are those that cheat on their men. A non cheating woman would most likely never take her husband to court for divorce, unless the man exceedingly abuses her physically and emotionally to the point of killing her. Men don’t equate sex with love. A man can have sex with another woman but still doesn’t love her. That’s why women who fell in love with married men find it difficult to find happiness in those relationships as they are just being used by those married men. But once a married woman starts sleeping with you, she can even narrates some hidden secretes concerning her husband and she will even tell you why she hates ...

Sometimes, a trial separation is exactly what a couple needs to last forever. There are times when friction between two spouses or an unmarried couple can be so intense that the only wise, mature choice is a separation. When two people truly want to work out their differences but can’t, my clients and I call this type of separation an intermission.   Sometimes a couple can return for act two, but there are other times when returning only results in continued rage. Here are the types of relationships where an intermission will not work, at least without a great deal of work and a strong desire to salvage the relationship: One partner is not ready for a commitment and longs for time to experience other relationships. One partner is so tied to a parent(s) that a partner or potential partner’s desires cannot be shown respect, and a mature discussion is unable to occur. In second marriages, children from a first marraige or relationship are allowed to disrespect one’s present partne...

A heartbroken man left the court in tears as he deposed that he didn’t want his wife, Hilda Mleya, 30, anymore because she was too beautiful. The incident took place at Chief Chireya’s court in Gokwe, Zimbabwe. Arnold Masuka, 40, the complainant made his sensational claims before Chief Chireya. It is reported that Masuka was divorcing his wife because of her beauty which was giving him sleepless nights.  The situation had got so bad he was afraid of going to work or leaving her alone as he feared she would attract other men.  Chief Chireya asked Masuka if he had really made up his mind to divorce his wife and abandon his own young children who are currently still in school. The Chief urged the couple to continue staying together as husband and wife, but Masuka told the court that their marriage had ended, even before the case started.

The punishment of infidelity to some, might be in decades to come while for others, karma is instant! According to a relationship consultant, Ben Nnamdi, an unnamed pregnant Nigerian woman is in trouble owing to her one-time search for adventure Trouble started for the married woman after her ex-boyfriend succeeded in having sexual relations with her eventhough she is married. Prior to their sexcapade, the supposed ex was unaware that she was already 3 months pregnant and is currently laying claims to the unborn baby In the perturbed lady’s words; “I am a married woman with a son of 2years plus and legally married, wedding and traditional marriage three years ago. “My problem is that my girlfriend called me yesterday from the village that she had a rumor that my Ex is saying that he is coming to take my son, that he is the father and that I was pregnant for him before I got married. Ben I was like when? How? In this world or in the dreams and she said that she want me t...

Emotional Health and Well-Being I’ve long felt that choosing a life partner should be a subject that is thoroughly discussed sometime in high school and perhaps even in university. It amazes me that so little time, if any, is given to consideringthis topic on a meaningful level in school. Near as I can tell, it’s probably the single most important decision that all of us can make.My feeling is that most people who get married in modern society don’t have the foresight and life experience needed to make the best possible choice. I’m sure that some people are quite thoughtful and wise in choosing a life partner, but from my little spot on the planet, it looks like most of us, myself included, rely mainly on our instincts to choose the one person we want to be with forever.And why wouldn’t we? Society teaches us that love is what matters. Love is theonlything that matters. And what is love? Isn’t it that special feeling that occupies your thoracic cavity and makes you feel blissfully...

I’m feeling insecure.. N I’ve talked to him about it.. he just keeps telling me that I’m thinking too much.. N ends the conversation making me feel like a fool.. Whenever we are having a conversation.. He finds ways to talk about other girls that’s he’s friends with.. N when il ask if he’s told his female friends about his relationship with me… His answer would be like.. “yeah i guess” or “maybe i don’t remember”.. What do i do at this point? I never get a straight answer out of him.. In the past I’ve caught him telling other girls that he’s single n that’s when I started doubting everything in this relationship.. He tells me that he loves me but his actions speak something else… yesterday we were having a conversation n he told me that one of the girl that he’s friends with gave him a very cute nick name.. I said.. cool.. Then he asked me to call him with that nickname too… I mean… 3yrs of this relationship n he wants me to call him with a name some other girl gave him.. I’m totally ...

He doesn’t mind spending time at home together It’s good when you can have fun with your boyfriend, but what really matters is when the two of you can get all domestic at home and still spend great time. You might not live together yet, but you already have your stuff stashed away in his apartment and you enjoy each other’s company while doing grocery shopping, cooking dinners, and watching movies. He’s with you even when things aren’t going too smooth If your man is not afraid to be around when you hit rock bottom, it’s a sure sign he treasures you more than anything. It’s easy to be together when all is well, but sticking through the rough patches requires some serious care and devotion. This means the two of you can overcome any trouble together, and that’s more than any of us could ask for. You buy something together Whether it’s a dog, a gadget, or a new house, buying things together and sharing responsibilities means you’re in the relationship for a long time. First you brin...

There’s sex. There’s good sex. And there’s spectacularly good sex. Which would you prefer with your partner? If it’s the latter, here are ten golden sex rules to guarantee that’s what you’ll get. Life’s short. Aim high! LAUGH IT OFF Sex is smelly, noisy, sweaty and unflattering. If you’ve never done anything in bed that’s caused you the slightest bit of embarrassment, you win the award for The World’s Most Boring Lover. The World’s Best has had semen in their eye, pubic hair up their nose, broken wind at the worst possible moment, looked down at their body and thought ‘Jesus! I really should have joined that gym’, tripped over because their knickers were around their ankles and felt stupendously ridiculous because they tried something new and it went horribly wrong. Tracey shared her 10 golden rules for a lifetime of great sex with FEMAIL Your attitude is spot on, if you thought, Who cares!, when any or all of the above happened. You’re having sex, not performing live on Y...

An anonymous lady on Facebook has shared the story of how she discovered that a man she was already considering having a relationship with is already married. She said she met him through a friend and they grew fond of each other since then. After finally agreeing to meet, she discovered something…   A friend of mine introduced me to this guy they live in the same city. I live in another city. So we got talking and grew fond of each other.  He decided to visit so we could meet get to know ourselves better and step up things.  Two days to his visit, after our usual long hours talk, I saw a new pic he’d posted only to see a comment of someone asking him to greet madam. You know in Nigeria, a man’s madam is either his wife or fiancee. So as a smart babe na, I looked up this commenter’s profile and mutual friends witg my guy and voila “madam” pops up. I see wedding pics, honey moon pics, etc. He’d never mentioned to me that he’dbeen married. He only told me of some lady...

For quite a long time, men have pondered what the key to living longer is, with a significant number of us trusting we can achieve the present normal future of 76 years of age—which is around five years short of what it is for a lady. While there are a lot of books out there and speculations to do as such, science has recently given us folks some inside data—and gazing at boobs and having heaps of sex is among the five privileged insights to a more drawn out life, no joke! That is as indicated by a current piece from Medical Daily—which recognises five surprising courses for men to live more—giving help for each. Gazing At Boobs Try not to be a crawl about it, at the same time, gazing at boobs can really deliver an uplifting outlook, which, fundamentally, can enable you to live more. That is as indicated by an examination distributed in the Archives of Internal Medicine, which demonstrated that, of those partaking in the investigation, positive reasoning powerfully affected well-b...

I t’s not uncommon to assume some level of trust in a new relationship but sometimes that trust is misplaced or misunderstood. The question isn’t should you trust; it’s how do you build trust so your relationship can grow and thrive? Before you can build trust, you have to understand what it means to you and your partner. Clearly communicating your expectations and understanding what your partner needs is the foundation for building a long-lasting relationship. The problem is we tend to shy away from these conversations when a relationship is new for fear of scaring the other person away. And by not having the conversation, assumptions are made which can lead to disagreements and even betrayal down the road. Take the time to understand what your partner is looking for in a relationship and make sure your needs are expressed. When you begin there, building trust becomes much easier. To help you take the next steps… Here Are 10 Ways to Build Trust in a Relationship: Earn It Don’t...

Most times, when starting out with challenging in-laws, the post-honeymoon portion of the show results in a dramatic climax with cameo appearances by an often unsuspecting cast of characters. I’ve dipped my big toe into this risky topic pool once before, and am now ready to take the full plunge. Here are five coping mechanisms I’ve developed, which I’m still laboriously practicing and pledging in writing to continue to rehearse: 1. Stay off hot-button topics. One of my favorite things about my mother-in-law is her ability to express herself without compunction and her commensurate ability to agree to disagree. She respects that, like her, I’m outspoken and have strong feelings about most (okay, all) topics. We’ve had our share of arguments and may not always see eye-to-eye, but I’ve learned to avoid topics that will result in a problem. In the past, those topics included me working full-time, part-time, and being a stay-at-home mom. We also no longer discuss whether it’s appropriat...

I discovered this week that I’ve been holding something back from a lot of my clients and readers. I’ve been holding back expressing all the ways that my relationship with Hemal (my husband) is the kind of love you see in those cheesy romantic comedies. I was almost afraid to share how happy we are. But I want you to have an example of how a relationship can be a place of true freedom, true connection, true passion — because in your experiences with love thus far, it’s easy to question if this kind of love is possible. And I want you to know that it is. Now, this level of love — this daily playful passionate experience I have with Hemal — wasn’t possible for years because I had a huge wall up, or a block to love. Like many strong, independent women, I was committed to not losing myself in a relationship. Translation: less than 5 years ago, I was terrified to let Hemal into my heart. After some digging, I realized that my commitment to freedom was making me feel really alone — ev...